Listen To Me
Some restaurants have a nice, candlelit atmosphere while others provide entertainment and excitement. Depending on the restaurant you choose you can create a romantic date or a fun date. Don’t get drunk. Maybe eventually she’ll want to hear about your mother who verbally abused you as a child, but NOT on the first date. Really, she’ll be more impressed if you focus your attention on her.
Look her in the eye when you are talking. Hold the stare for a little longer than you would a normal conversation. It may sound corny, but open a door for her to walk through. Offer to get her a drink if you’re at a party or bar together. Touch her hand or shoulder when you hand her a drink. If you’re sitting across from each other, gently put your hand on hers. Don’t move it away unless she does. Dive on in head first and go for the French Kissing.
Start off with a normal kiss, not too firm, not too aggressive. Closing your eyes is optional. In mid kiss, gently open your mouth and softly nudge the other person’s mouth open using your tongue. Again, not too aggressively, move your tongue inside the other person’s mouth and playfully touch their tongue. As the kissing gets going saliva build up can be a problem. Don’t forget to swallow. French Kissing takes practice, but at least it is fun to practice this one!
If you kiss somebody passionately or get into heavy fooling around this does not mean that you have to go all the way. If the question arises while you are kissing or fooling around, stop what you are doing and change the tone of the moment. Take a deep breath and say these words, “No, I don’t want to have sex.” While the idea of “born-again virgin” may seem a little like “technical virgin,” it is not the same thing. Sex is a big deal. You will have to live with the sin you have committed. Third base, also known as “heavy petting,” is a big deal. Sin is very tempting, and going to Third Base can be a danger zone.
If you want a way out, simply say it was nice meeting her and excuse yourself. Don’t be rude, even if you never intend to see her again. Remember, she may have a friend you’re interested in!
Other Tips:
You do not need to date a lot of people – just the right one.
You should check your potential girlfriend against the values listed in 1 Corinthians.
You future mate might be somewhere on the Internet, but go slowly, use common sense, and always be at least a little suspicious.
Proverbs 4:23: “Above all else, guard your heart, for it is the wellspring of life.”
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